5 Signs He’s Not That Into You

It’s a great feeling when you’ve found a guy that you actually like. He’s got a great personality, he’s cute and he’s everything you’ve dreamed of.

So what happens when you get the feeling that he’s not that into you? Well, here are 5 ways to know.

He Says He Just Wants to Be Friends

Now don’t get teary eyed here. At least he’s being courteous enough to let you know that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. He could just string you along and hound you for sex.

Instead, he’s being a man about it and giving you the heads up in advance. So, take it with a grain of salt and move on. If he only wants to be friends, then just be friends.

He Puts You on the Back Burner

If you find that you’re starting to see him less and less, then you may have a situation. If he’s hanging out with his friends more than you, it may be time to move on.

If he really wanted to be with you and cared about you, he’d definitely make some time for you. But if he’s putting the relationship off just to hang out with his friends or do whatever, then he’s not that into you.

He Doesn’t Call

If his excuse for not calling is because he was soooo busy, then that means you weren’t on his mind. A guy that’s into you will at least find a few minutes out of his busiest day to see how you’re doing.

He Constantly Pushes Sex

A guy who truly likes you won’t push sex on you. He will wait until you’re ready. If every time you turn around he’s talking about sex, then that means he’s more interested in what’s in your pants than you.

If You Catch Him Messing Around

How can he be into you if you catch him in the act with someone else? However you find out, he can’t be into you and someone else at the same time. It doesn’t work that way.

So, you can tell him that it’s either all you or he can move on. By the way, if he decides to hit the door, don’t be sad or shed one tear. That just means that he wasn’t meant for you and it’s better you found out sooner than later.


  1. Jennifer Zimmerman says:

    I have this guy that is alway talking about sex and things he want to do to me, it seem like that all he care about. What should I do?

    • You definitely don’t want a guy who always talks about sex. I’m thinking that sex is all he wants from you. Whatever you do, don’t give in. If he’s your boyfriend then dump him. You are more than just sex girl.

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